Every extended family session begins the same way.
A little bit of chaos. A lot of laughter. And someone saying, “We haven’t done this in years.”
And by the end? It becomes one of those memories you’re so grateful you made the time for.
Why Extended Family Photos Matter
Extended family sessions are about more than just getting everyone in one frame. They capture connection, the way Grandpa squeezes Grandma’s hand, the way cousins immediately run off together, the way siblings slip back into their childhood roles without even trying.
These sessions freeze a season that won’t look the same next year.
Children grow. Hair turns gray. Grandparents slow down. Life gets busier. Extended family photos preserve what it feels like right now and that’s priceless.
What an Extended Family Session Looks Like
One of the biggest questions I get is: How does this even work with so many people?
Don’t worry, I guide the entire process.
A typical extended family session includes:
- The full group (everyone together)
- Grandparents with all grandchildren
- Individual immediate families
- Sibling groupings
- Cousins together
- Grandparents alone
- Just the original siblings (adult children together)
Before your session, I help you create a simple shot list so nothing is forgotten. We move efficiently, but without feeling rushed, keeping things organized while still leaving room for genuine moments.
Choosing the Right Location
For extended family sessions in Central Virginia, I usually recommend:
- A scenic outdoor location in Amherst, Appomattox, Bedford, or Lynchburg
- A meaningful family property (farms are especially beautiful)
- A park with open space for kids to move comfortably
Golden hour works beautifully for larger groups because the light is soft, flattering, and gives us that timeless, light and airy feel Wildfleur Photography is known for.
What to Wear (Without the Stress)
When coordinating multiple families, simple is best.
I always recommend:
- A cohesive color palette (soft neutrals, muted tones, soft blues, creams, sage, dusty pinks)
- Avoiding bold patterns or neon colors
- Letting one or two subtle prints anchor the group
Instead of matching exactly, think “coordinated.” I send a Style Guide to help make this part easy because outfit stress should never overshadow the excitement of everyone being together.
How to Prepare Kids (and Grandparents!)
Extended family sessions can feel overwhelming for little ones so I build in breathing room.
We start with the full group while attention spans are fresh, then break into smaller combinations. Kids get quick wins, grandparents get seated when needed, and we keep the energy light.
And honestly? Some of the sweetest images happen in between poses, when Grandma fixes a collar or cousins whisper secrets.
The Hidden Gift of Extended Sessions
Here’s something families don’t always expect: extended sessions often become legacy images.
The ones that hang in entryways. The ones printed large above fireplaces. The ones that feel more valuable with every passing year.
These sessions aren’t just for today. They’re for your children’s children. And I truly believe there is nothing more meaningful than that.
When Is the Best Time to Schedule?
Fall is incredibly popular for extended family sessions, especially when families are together for holidays.
But spring and early summer are beautiful as well, especially for families traveling in from out of town. Booking early ensures we can secure a date that works for everyone.
Final Thoughts
If you’ve been saying, “We need to do extended family photos soon,” consider this your gentle nudge.
There will never be a perfectly convenient time. There will never be a season when everyone’s schedule is wide open. But there will come a day when you’re so thankful you made it happen.
If you’re ready to preserve your family’s legacy with an extended family session, I would love to help you plan it.
Wildfleur Photography is a maternity, newborn, and family photographer based in Lynchburg, Virginia and serves the surrounding areas. To inquire with Wildfleur Photography fill out the contact form to connect.
